Ethics in Medicine

It has been said that the bricks making up the foundation of the relationship between provider and patient are knowledge and communication. The mortar that forms the basis for trust is integrity and ethical behavior of all participants in the relationship. In obstetrics and gynecology ethical dilemmas deal with the provacative issues surrounding the beginnings of life, the nature of parenting, and the control of individual patients over their own destiny. Some say ethical dilemmas only arise when there are conflicting obligations, rights, or claims. A consensus of values must often be sought when the patient is cared for by a team. The principle of autonomy may form the underlying basis for resolving many ethical questions and will determine appropriate attitudes toward confidentiality, privacy, and the ultimate primacy of the patient in making treatment decisions. We all bring our past and multiple experiences to the table when dealing with ethical dilemmas. We must work to understand each other, empathize with the patient, reach out and meet them where they are. This is the responsibilty of the provider. Is your provider doing this?

Patience in Medicine

Patience is truely a virtue. Unfortunately patience isn't plentiful in medicine today. Patience is key to arriving at the right diagnosis and treatment plan. I was told in medical school "just listen and the patient will give you the diagnosis." The longer I practice, the more this rings true. Lets exercise PATIENCE as healthcare providers and do what is right for our PATIENTS. Spend time to set and listen. Allow yourself the opportunity to really listen. This is an important step in becoming a real healer. If you are a patient and your healthcare provider doesn't seem to listen or allow open dialogue, I recommend you get a second opinion, if you know what I mean!

Compassionate Care

Compassion in medicine unfortunately is often forgotten. Communication is key to establishing a good patient provider relationship. During a pregnancy anxiety can often be overwhelming and fears should be explored. When questions are answered in a way that is clear and concise, it creates the healthiest atmosphere for learning and healing. Remember, no question is a bad or ridiculous question. If something is important to you as an expecting mother, then it should be important to your healthcare provider. Compassion should never become extinct in our healthcare today. Sometimes all that is needed is reassurance or just someone to listen.